Nginx vs apache vs jetty

What are the pros/cons of using nginx vs apache vs jetty?

I notice that meet.jit.si uses nginx, so I guess that says something.

Which is most used/tested by the developers themselves?

(I chose jetty for my test installation, since it seemed the most straightforward. But after scanning myself with https://www.ssllabs.com/ssltest I see it seems to fail the ‘Uses common DH primes’ test.)

Jetty is not recommended, we switched to default to nginx and soon that will hit stable. Recommended is nginx, we use nginx as you have seen already.