Can I join Jitsi and not have a participant tile appear?

I’m using Jitsi as the video conferencing solution embedded in an OBS Livestream. OBS let’s me wrap other graphics, etc and stream out to Facebook Live, YouTube Live, etc using an RTMP endpoint.

However in order to embed the Jitsi meeting, I have to join on the PC I’m livestreaming from which inserts a black tile. If I have 1 host and 1 participant ideally in Tile View I see them talking side-by-side. However because I am joining the meeting in order to embed it in OBS, it inserts a third tile… kind of looks lame.

Anyone have any ideas on how to eliminate my faux participant? Is there something like Webinar setting where only certain attendees have a tile and the others are just watching?